“The day you stop criticising other people is the day you have officially stopped criticising yourself. When you no longer feel the need to compare, it means you’ve stopped using other people as a litmus test for your own self-worth.” ~ Samara O’Shea We’ve all been there – caught in the grip of our relentless […]
Sandy Clarke
My clients just want to talk – how can I help them set therapy goals?
Question: I have worked with clients who seem to lack specific goals for therapy and who just want to talk. While I understand the value of building a strong therapeutic relationship and offering a safe and supportive space for clients to express themselves, I worry that I may not be able to provide the direction […]
As a new therapist, I’m feel lost – what can I do?
Question: As a new therapist, I find myself struggling with feelings of self-doubt and uncertainty about my abilities to provide effective therapyto my clients. Despite my training and education, I often feel like I don’t know what I’m doing, and I feel like I’m letting my clients down or that they could be better served […]
When should I refer my client to another therapist?
Question: How can I determine when I should refer a client to another professional if I feel unable to help them due to my limitations versus when I feel uncertain or lacking in confidence about my abilities to connect with the client? I want to ensure that I’m providing helpful therapy to my clients and […]
How can I manage my emotions in session?
Question: I’ve found myself worrying about navigating difficult emotions and situations that arise during therapy sessions. I feel particularly unsure of how to handle situations when faced with clients who have complex and challenging issues, such as those dealing with traumatic experiences or intense emotions. In these situations, I worry that my emotions and reactions […]
Group therapy: what is it and how can it help you?
Group therapy is a form of psychotherapy that involves one or more therapists working with several people at the same time. The group typically consists of five to fifteen clients who meet for an hour or two each week. Conducted online or in person, group therapy can be an ideal choice for addressing concerns and […]