In our pursuit of personal growth, we often focus solely on setting and achieving goals. While goals are undoubtedly important, there’s another crucial element that can significantly enhance our journey: values. Understanding the distinction between values and goals, and how they complement each other, can lead to more fulfilling and sustainable progress in our lives. […]
Patience, persistence, and perseverance: the keys to making new habits stick
Have you ever wondered why some habits seem to stick effortlessly while others feel like an uphill battle? The process of habit formation is a fascinating journey that intertwines psychology, neuroscience, and personal determination. Contrary to popular belief, there’s no magic number of days that guarantees a new habit will take root. The oft-cited “21-day […]
How to make the most of the holiday season
The end-of-year holiday season is upon us, bringing with it a whirlwind of twinkling lights, festive music, and the promise of cherished moments with loved ones. It’s a time of year that many look forward to, yet it can also bring its own challenges. Whether you’re an introvert needing some quiet time, someone navigating complex […]
Chronophobia: Understanding and managing the fear of time
Do you sometimes feel an overwhelming sense of dread when thinking about the passage of time? If so, you might be experiencing chronophobia, a psychological condition that can significantly impact our quality of life. Chronophobia, derived from the Greek words chronos (time) and phobos (fear), is an intense and irrational fear of time and its […]
Attachment style: The foundation of human relationships
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to effortlessly form close bonds whilst others struggle to maintain relationships? The answer might lie in their attachment style, a fascinating concept that shapes our interactions from infancy through adulthood. Attachment style refers to the patterns of behaviour and beliefs that individuals develop regarding interpersonal relationships. These […]
The Spotlight Effect: Nobody’s watching (as much as you think)
Have you ever walked into a room and felt as though all eyes were on you? Or perhaps you’ve agonised over a small stain on your shirt, convinced that everyone you encounter has spotted it? If so, you’ve experienced what psychologists call The Spotlight Effect – a phenomenon where we overestimate how much others notice […]