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Finding the right therapist for you (and what to look for)

June 19, 2023  |  By Sandy Clarke In GENERAL, OPINION
No matter who you are, we’re here for you!

Psychotherapy is a type of treatment that helps people experiencing a wide range of mental health conditions and emotional challenges.

It’s a collaborative treatment based on the relationship between a client and a therapist, providing a supportive environment that allows you to talk openly with someone who is non-judgemental and empathetic.

Psychotherapy guides you to learn about your moods, feelings, thoughts, and behaviours, and you can learn to identify and change negative thought patterns and behaviours that contribute to mental health problems and emotional struggles.

There are many types of psychotherapy, each with its own approach and grounded in different psychological theories. Some of the most common types of psychotherapy include cognitive-behavioural therapy, interpersonal therapy, and psychodynamic therapy. The right type of psychotherapy for someone will depend on their needs, preferences, and circumstances.

Therapy can be short-term (a few weeks to months), dealing with more immediate challenges, or long-term (months to years), addressing more complex issues. The effectiveness of psychotherapy depends on many factors, including the therapeutic relationship, the client’s motivation and engagement, and the therapist’s competence and adherence to evidence-based practices.

Finding the right therapist for you

If you’re considering psychotherapy, it’s important to find a therapist who is a good fit for you. Here are some things to consider when looking for a therapist:

  • Credentials: Look for a licensed mental health professional who has the appropriate training and credentials to provide psychotherapy.
  • Experience: Consider a therapist who has worked with clients who have similar concerns or issues as you.
  • Approach: Consider the type of psychotherapy that would be most effective for your situation and look for a therapist who specialises in that approach.
  • Compatibility: It’s important to find a therapist you feel comfortable with and can establish a strong therapeutic alliance (this means having a good connection and an agreement on therapy goals and how you’ll work toward them).
  • Personal Qualities: Look for a therapist who is empathetic, compassionate, and non-judgemental. An effective therapist should also be a good listener, able to communicate clearly, and be open to feedback. Take the risk to give feedback and let them know how things are going for you in therapy so that changes can be made, and your alliance will improve.

Benefits of working with someone who’s the right fit

A good therapist can help you:

  • Develop a better understanding of yourself and your emotions.
  • Learn new coping skills to manage stress and anxiety.
  • Improve your relationships with others.
  • Effectively deal with past traumas and negative experiences.
  • Build self-esteem and confidence.
  • Achieve personal growth and self-awareness

All types of psychotherapy have their strengths and limitations, and it is important to find a therapist who is a good fit for you. Take the time to find a therapist who can help you understand yourself better, grow, and achieve your goals.

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