URGENT HELP

RELATE
  • LEARN MORE
    • About Us
      • Our Mission
      • Dr. Chua Sook Ning
      • Partners and Advisors
      • In the Press
    • What Is Mental Health And Wellness?
      • Mental Health and Exercise
      • Mental Health and Nutrition
      • Building Resilience
        • Physical Resilience
        • Mental Resilience
        • Emotional Resilience
        • Emotional Resilience: Helping Your Child Build Emotional Resilience
        • Social Resilience
      • Early Warning Signs
    • Mental Health Laws & Guidelines Overview
      • What are your mental health rights in Malaysia?
      • Persons With Disabilities Act 2008
    • Mental Health Conditions
      • Anxiety
        • Anxiety Disorders: Introduction
        • What Causes Anxiety?
        • Getting Help for Anxiety
      • Bipolar
        • Bipolar: Introduction
        • What Causes Bipolar Disorder?
        • Getting Help for Bipolar Disorders
      • Depression
        • Depression: Introduction
        • What Causes Depression?
        • Getting Help for Depression
      • Eating Disorders
        • Eating Disorders: Introduction
        • What Causes Eating Disorders?
        • Getting Help for Eating Disorders
      • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
        • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: Introduction
        • What Causes OCD?
        • Getting Help for OCD
      • Schizophrenia
        • Schizophrenia: Introduction
        • Getting Help for Schizophrenia
        • What Causes Schizophrenia?
    • Treatments For Mental Health Problems
      • Psychotherapyy
        • What is Psychotherapy ?
        • When To Consider Psychotherapy
        • What Happens In A Therapy Session?
        • Questions To Ask Your Therapist
      • Medication
        • Anti-Anxiety
        • Anti-Psychotics
        • Anti-Depressants
        • Mood Stabilizers
        • Stimulants
    • Think tank – We are Malaysia’s first mental health think-tank. Read more about our research and advocacy.
      • Projects
      • White papers
      • Brief reports
    • Articles
      • Opinion
      • Current Issues
      • Therapists’ Corner
      • Your Voice
  • DO MORE
    • Events
    • Events Calendar
  • GET HELP
    • Mental Health Check
      • Depression Test
      • Anxiety Test
    • Why Get Help?
    • First Steps to Getting Help
    • Relate Therapy
      • Sign Up for Relate Therapy
      • Sign Up: Group Therapy For Depression
      • Meet our team
      • Relate Therapy Internship
    • Public Hospitals and Private Clinics
      • Submit Your Practice
    • Suicide Prevention
      • Warning Signs
      • Myths about Suicide
      • Getting Help for Suicidal Thoughts
    • Where to get urgent help?
  • RELATE PODCAST
  • CONTACT
  • 0
    • LEARN MORE
      • About Us
        • Our Mission
        • Dr. Chua Sook Ning
        • Partners and Advisors
        • In the Press
      • What Is Mental Health And Wellness?
        • Mental Health and Exercise
        • Mental Health and Nutrition
        • Building Resilience
          • Physical Resilience
          • Mental Resilience
          • Emotional Resilience
          • Emotional Resilience: Helping Your Child Build Emotional Resilience
          • Social Resilience
        • Early Warning Signs
      • Mental Health Laws & Guidelines Overview
        • What are your mental health rights in Malaysia?
        • Persons With Disabilities Act 2008
      • Mental Health Conditions
        • Anxiety
          • Anxiety Disorders: Introduction
          • What Causes Anxiety?
          • Getting Help for Anxiety
        • Bipolar
          • Bipolar: Introduction
          • What Causes Bipolar Disorder?
          • Getting Help for Bipolar Disorders
        • Depression
          • Depression: Introduction
          • What Causes Depression?
          • Getting Help for Depression
        • Eating Disorders
          • Eating Disorders: Introduction
          • What Causes Eating Disorders?
          • Getting Help for Eating Disorders
        • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
          • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: Introduction
          • What Causes OCD?
          • Getting Help for OCD
        • Schizophrenia
          • Schizophrenia: Introduction
          • Getting Help for Schizophrenia
          • What Causes Schizophrenia?
      • Treatments For Mental Health Problems
        • Psychotherapyy
          • What is Psychotherapy ?
          • When To Consider Psychotherapy
          • What Happens In A Therapy Session?
          • Questions To Ask Your Therapist
        • Medication
          • Anti-Anxiety
          • Anti-Psychotics
          • Anti-Depressants
          • Mood Stabilizers
          • Stimulants
      • Think tank – We are Malaysia’s first mental health think-tank. Read more about our research and advocacy.
        • Projects
        • White papers
        • Brief reports
      • Articles
        • Opinion
        • Current Issues
        • Therapists’ Corner
        • Your Voice
    • DO MORE
      • Events
      • Events Calendar
    • GET HELP
      • Mental Health Check
        • Depression Test
        • Anxiety Test
      • Why Get Help?
      • First Steps to Getting Help
      • Relate Therapy
        • Sign Up for Relate Therapy
        • Sign Up: Group Therapy For Depression
        • Meet our team
        • Relate Therapy Internship
      • Public Hospitals and Private Clinics
        • Submit Your Practice
      • Suicide Prevention
        • Warning Signs
        • Myths about Suicide
        • Getting Help for Suicidal Thoughts
      • Where to get urgent help?
    • RELATE PODCAST
    • CONTACT
    • 0

When should I refer my client to another therapist?

July 16, 2023  |  By Sandy Clarke In Therapists' Corner
Therapy talk

Question: How can I determine when I should refer a client to another professional if I feel unable to help them due to my limitations versus when I feel uncertain or lacking in confidence about my abilities to connect with the client?

I want to ensure that I’m providing helpful therapy to my clients and not causing any harm by continuing to work with a client when it’s not in their best interest. However, I also want to avoid referring clients because of my insecurities.

What signs should I look for that indicate that I’m unable to provide the support the client needs? How can I differentiate between genuine limitations and feelings of lacking confidence?

Also, what are some effective strategies for referring clients to other professionals, and how can I do so in a way that is sensitive to their needs and ensures a smooth transition?

Response from Dr. Chua: The best time for a referral is after an assessment. The assessment should give you enough information to understand your client’s history, current struggles, therapy goals, and treatment needed. If you are not trained to provide the treatment that fits your client, you can refer to someone who is or find a supervisor who will supervise your work (provided you have at least some didactic learning on the treatment and the problem).

Be honest with yourself and your clients. Don’t pass yourself off as an expert if you are still learning. For instance, I’m not an expert in treating patients with ADHD, and if the client is looking for an expert rather than someone who is learning, I will refer to someone more experienced. If you’re not confident, I recommend practising under supervision until your confidence increases. The lack of confidence will likely impact your treatment decisions and the therapeutic alliance. Your supervisor can also give you a more objective perspective on your abilities.

You can also use treatment outcome measures to ensure your client progresses and improves. My clients complete the OQ-45 TA (a progress outcome measure) at the start of every session, and we will discuss progress at least at the 6th session (assuming a 12-session structure) or more frequently if warranted. If your client is not improving and the alliance is not strong, it is unlikely that things are going the right way. You will need to reassess what you are doing – it might be the therapist-client fit, the treatment-client fit, or other issues hindering your client’s progress.

Discuss it with your client and collaboratively decide whether it’s best to refer. Explain why you think it would be better for your client to work with someone else (often, it’s about expertise). Ask your client for feedback on how the treatment is going. Clients are often protecting our feelings by telling us everything is going well. The objective measures will facilitate an honest discussion if it’s the case your client isn’t improving.

Even though you’re not rejecting your client, your client might feel like it’s a rejection. You want your client to have the best transfer experience possible. You can give a couple of options and continue discussing with your client about the timeframe. Some clients are ready to leave, but some are not. So there may be a short overlap between you and the new therapist. Ask permission to share information with the new therapist to smooth the transfer.

If your client wants to stay, discuss alternate strategies. For example, try a new treatment or medication, and get more supervision for yourself. Collaboratively choose a new plan with your client and agree to reassess in a couple of sessions to check if the new direction is working.

—
Need to talk? Sign up for our therapy services here.
Keep in touch by clicking on the buttons below…

how to be a better therapist should I refer my client when should I refer my client

Related Articles

  • What can I do when my client focuses on everyone except themselves?
  • My client doesn't talk much...what can I do?

0 Comments

Leave your comment Cancel Reply

(will not be shared)

May 2025
M T W T F S S
 1234
567891011
12131415161718
19202122232425
262728293031  
« Mar    

Recent Updates

  • Are you a lefty or righty when it comes to the brain?
  • Our brain is always ‘on’ – here’s how to support its health
  • How to create a psychologically rich life

CONTACT

    inquiries@relate.com.my

 

         

BE IN THE KNOW

Sign up to our newsletter to be informed on the latest events and activities. We hate spam ourselves, and will only email you ONCE a month at most.

SEARCH

© 2017- Relate Mental Health Malaysia Berhad (Reg: 1251126-M) | All Rights Reserved.

Loading...

RELATE

  • LEARN MORE
    • About Us
      • Our Mission
      • Dr. Chua Sook Ning
      • Partners and Advisors
      • In the Press
      • Back
    • What Is Mental Health And Wellness?
      • Mental Health and Exercise
      • Mental Health and Nutrition
      • Building Resilience
        • Physical Resilience
        • Mental Resilience
        • Emotional Resilience
        • Emotional Resilience: Helping Your Child Build Emotional Resilience
        • Social Resilience
        • Back
      • Early Warning Signs
      • Back
    • Mental Health Laws & Guidelines Overview
      • What are your mental health rights in Malaysia?
      • Persons With Disabilities Act 2008
      • Back
    • Mental Health Conditions
      • Anxiety
        • Anxiety Disorders: Introduction
        • What Causes Anxiety?
        • Getting Help for Anxiety
        • Back
      • Bipolar
        • Bipolar: Introduction
        • What Causes Bipolar Disorder?
        • Getting Help for Bipolar Disorders
        • Back
      • Depression
        • Depression: Introduction
        • What Causes Depression?
        • Getting Help for Depression
        • Back
      • Eating Disorders
        • Eating Disorders: Introduction
        • What Causes Eating Disorders?
        • Getting Help for Eating Disorders
        • Back
      • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
        • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder: Introduction
        • What Causes OCD?
        • Getting Help for OCD
        • Back
      • Schizophrenia
        • Schizophrenia: Introduction
        • Getting Help for Schizophrenia
        • What Causes Schizophrenia?
        • Back
      • Back
    • Treatments For Mental Health Problems
      • Psychotherapyy
        • What is Psychotherapy ?
        • When To Consider Psychotherapy
        • What Happens In A Therapy Session?
        • Questions To Ask Your Therapist
        • Back
      • Medication
        • Anti-Anxiety
        • Anti-Psychotics
        • Anti-Depressants
        • Mood Stabilizers
        • Stimulants
        • Back
      • Back
    • Think tank
      • Projects
      • White papers
      • Brief reports
      • Back
    • Articles
      • Opinion
      • Current Issues
      • Therapists’ Corner
      • Your Voice
      • Back
    • Back
  • DO MORE
    • Events
    • Events Calendar
    • Back
  • GET HELP
    • Mental Health Check
      • Depression Test
      • Anxiety Test
      • Back
    • Why Get Help?
    • First Steps to Getting Help
    • Relate Therapy
      • Sign Up for Relate Therapy
      • Sign Up: Group Therapy For Depression
      • Meet our team
      • Relate Therapy Internship
      • Back
    • Public Hospitals and Private Clinics
      • Submit Your Practice
      • Back
    • Suicide Prevention
      • Warning Signs
      • Myths about Suicide
      • Getting Help for Suicidal Thoughts
      • Back
    • Where to get urgent help?
    • Back
  • RELATE PODCAST
  • CONTACT
  • Cart